Opung

This afternoon, a call from my old boss secretary from Bogor was really suprising me. She told me that my other ex-boss has died. It’s hard to believe even though I already called his daughter in law to confirm this sad news. I lost him, and here I am sitting in my room with a blank mind in my head, waiting till the office hours to end up….Cant believe he’s leaving…..

 

The one that I used to called Opung, a hardworker boss, an understanding person with unique stubbornness, and a very friendly grandpa.

 

The one that taught me so many things in my early working years along my campuss schedule hecticity.

 

The one that couple year ago attended my campuss graduation ceremony with my mamsi.

 

The one who’s always shimmer with ideas and idealisms amongs those pessimistics and jealousy critics.

 

The one whose marking Bogor with its Botanical Square and other projects for the almamater.

(Thamrin Poeloengan is the man behind the projects)

 

and there is so much more about him.

 

Leaving him at that time wasn’t an easy thing to do, because its feel like I’m leaving the whole family even though I still live in Bogor. I just visited him last week but I never thought that he’ll be goin this fast. As I told you before, in some circumstances sometimes letting go was never been an easy thing for me. Especially letting go of someone special like Opung which has became a friend, a teacher in his way, a boss with his stuborness, a funny and a loveable grandpa…..

 

Selamat jalan ya Pung.

Just another (topic of) conversation

A few days ago I went to the office with a friend, we talk about a lot of things but mostly about the job and then somehow we got into the adult topic. Well, the part of the discussion was mention about one of the worrying individual value such as the improving an intimate relationship which refers to a sexual relationship without a bond which against the east traditional culture value.

 

In my opinion, a decision for doing the free sexual relationship is a pure self-individual choice and must follow with some responsibility for any possible risk that could happen in the future. I guess that is the standard point of view that needed to be considering of whenever you make a decision. In other words, there is always a consequence as a result for your action. Then the next question will be, are you gonna be ready to received the consequence of your own (intimate) action? Ignoring what ever the reason behind the action wether it’s in the name of love or for money, it still has its own consequences.

 

As you can see out there and it can not be denied, there are a lot of complexity cases that caused by this unrespondsible sexual behavior with the lack of knowledge about the healthy sexual relationship. The spreading of AIDS along with other sexual diseases sometimes followed by babies’ birth with defect, untreatable and uncurable disease; a suicide nor murdering cases; the malpractice abortion which lead into a mortality are just some of the impact that we often heard out there through the media. What we were dealing now is the condition where people, in this case young people and teenagers doing the free sexual relationship without knowing the risk of it (remember the story of a junior high school student who sell her virginity just because she was temptated to have a lot of money, a cool cellphone and to be able to do a hair extension? **sigh** )  and the ironic part is that almost all the blame goes to the female.

 

Education played an important role to help to reduce the problem in the society. The information or education about this topic should be taught properly instead classified as a taboo to be avoided. A discussion with some expert would be giving some clearer image about the situation. During my senior at all girls high school in Yogyakarta, all the second grade students were brought to the PKBI - Pusat Keluarga Berencana Indonesia to discuss about the human reproduction topic. First, they were asking what we know, how far and from who we get the information, do we really understand the risk or what - then they give some clarification, of course with extra knowledge about the things that we didn’t know yet. 

 

On the other side, moral value and the aspect of conscientiousness and responsibility need to be nurture during the grow-up phase of a child. Parent took a very important role for this one because a family is a place where the children learn for the first time, then strengthen with the formal education in the school. The provisions of a condom vending machine should be seen positively as a part of a solution instead an enemy to a moral judgement by some people whose having different perception. The buying process is something that most people didn’t want to deal with because of their shyness though it sold on the counter in a public pharmacy stores. My mom was a midwife, a nurse with additional skill in reproduction knowledge so I kinda near enough with the information resources. I could understand better because I could talk and ask my mom about the reproduction topic and she would explain to fulfill my curiosity. Well, I’m considering I’m lucky enough to get those informations as much as I want.

 

A “Juno” movie review

Hey have you watch “Juno” recently? It’s a movie about a 16 years old young girl named Juno who got pregnant with her boyfriend. At first she was confused and discussed this with her friend who suggested her doing the abortion. She’s trying but she ended up running out from the abortion clinic, thanked by Suchi, her friend, an anti abortion demonstran infront of the clinic with the poster written: baby have toes!. Then she’s looking for an adoption parent for her unborn child as her solution before she told her parent about it. It’s because she realized she was not ready to become a parent at her age but she still wishing and hopping the best for the baby. The parents were described kinda surprised but somehow they keep support their daughter to get through the pregnancy.

 

The poster of Juno from Google

There was a part of the movie where Juno upset with her boyfriend in the school and snap him out mentioning that she was having the proof as their action under her sweater, while he’s not (see what I mean when I written that the blame goes to the woman?). You better watch it for yourself to get the better understanding about the movie by yourself okay?!.

 

Anyway it’s a nice movie with some hidden point, kinda funny and sound impossible. But eventhough Juno made mistakes she could go through it because she have her parent support, a nice friend who didnt leave her out, the school that didn’t expelled her and the boyfriend who still stay in the relationship.

 

Knowing that she’s having a chance to continue her life, I guess that’s what important and make her holding on.

 

People deserve to get a second chance to be a better person right?!

Parade USB

Belum lama ini saya sedang sibuk mencari USB eeeeh…… tau-taunya hari ini kebanjiran USB, saya punya tigaaa…..empat dengan yang lama ding….

  

 

Ada si mungil berwarna merah yang praktis dengan tutup yang nyantol dengan bodinya (gak bakal ilang, lucu khan, cocok buat cewe loh, promosi promosiiii….) dan dua lagi dengan model sorong yang bentuknya simple. ^ ^

 

Ada yang punya bentuk monyet gak ya???

100 Things About Me

Well… since I’ve been tagged by Jeng Nai, let’s finish the homework now…

 

1. I’m a girl not yet a woman

2. *who pretend to sing it like Britney @ this moment*

3. who enjoy to walk out crossin the park, street sideways or botanical garden trotoar

4. with my fav jeans and green cupluk old sweater

5. ponny tailed up my colloured hair

6. dicepol juga oke rambut’e ^ ^

7. along with my MP3 coverin my ears

8. listening to a good music

9. such as Bryan Adams as my fave artist

10.followed with Patty Smith, Roxette, Shania Twain, and other various singer

 

11. I’m a person who appreciate the beauty of nature 

12. and enjoy the outdor activities

13. Like to just walkin around the city corners and travel

14. to see new places and new faces

15. with their unique language that excited me

16. the same with their culinary (nyaaammm)

17. love spicy food the most

18. the same with coffee

 

19. I don’t like wearin make-up that much

20. or dressed up too much

21. that gonna make me feel so uncomfortable

22. but I’m not refuse to use them on some special occasion

 

23. A skin moisturizer is the only thing that attached to my face everyday

24. and though I enjoyed the smell of a fragrance

25. especially for jasmine and rose

26. I’m not so crazy about the perfume

 

27. More like I’m crazy about swimming

28. and I would prefer the beach instead swimming pool

29. I also love to walk on the sand

30. looking for the charming broken sea shells

31. and instead worried that much with my tanned skin

32. ‘I feel more sekseh with it’

33. because I know it will be recover soon anyway

 

34. And instead regret things that been happenin

35. I more like to learn from it

36. trying to be a better person than the other day   

37. I realized that it was not an easy thing to do

38. but I don’t mind to try ^ ^

 

39. I do have bunch of energy 

40. that I express in writing,

41. drawing,

42. payet-ting (mayetin mote ke baju gitu-gitu deh…),

43. knitting,

44. making handicraft kinda thing

45. and singin a song in my own tune (penggubah lagu besar-besaran hahaha…)

 

46. Drawing is like a heritage from my father

47. While payet-ting and knitting were the things my mom taught me

48. Those thing to keep me busy as a child

49. and practice my patience while doing the details of the task.

 

50. I appreciate seeing the shape of art

51. Seeing the perspective from the artists eyes

52. since myself not a good one in taking pictures

53. a self conscience necessary in this case

54. but I could do other things better ^ ^

 

55. I’m a dog lover

56. with 11 stiches on my chest

57. a bitten mark when I was 4

58. I still love dogs, because I grew up with and surrounded by them

59. And I have my own concern in primates as my focus of study

60. been jump to it since I’m in a college

61. and I’m still looking for the scholarship to study them more

 

62. I also have a deep wound on my right handwrist

63. on a bike race with my friends

64. so there is a mark on my fingers from the right hand

 

65. I might not say nice words everytime

66. because mostly I say the things just they way they were

67. and I could be so stubborn

68. when it comes to principal part

69. but I wont forcing my will to other people

70. because I try to treat people the way I want them to treat me

71. I would respect other people opinions

72. and their advice

73. I would hear it to get a different perspective

74. but the decision is still in my hand

 

75. I respect people for their wisdom,

76. experience and knowledge

77. but not just because they were old (get the point?)

 

78. Sometimes I feel like a child trap in an adult’s body

79. still love to play

80. and enjoy life they way they were

81. just like the smell of the humid grass and soil after the rain

82. or the wind blow through my face when riding a mo-bike

83. who still curious about a lot of things

(Curiosity kills the cat? huh?)

 

84. Where as my only treasure are my books

85. and the knowledge within them

 

86. I believe in karma

87. what you give is what you get

88. and that everything happen for a reason

89. I also see failure as a way

90. to make myself stronger than before

 

91. Eventhough I’m an ekstrovert kinda person

92. I do like to have my own privacy

93. and when I’m not good with words  

94. I prefer to do some action

96. that’ll be stronger than words

(in a good way yaa…no pinching, punching, fighting or taking lives allowed)

 

97. Keep my chin up, straight forward and smile no matter what

98. and trying to gratefull for the bless I had everyday

99. Such as this task

100. Arigato gozaimasu Nai-chan for the task

 

 

Yo yo yo……bis abiss…….

 

**tapi bingung mo ngetag sapa, semuanya dah diborong jeng Nai nihhh**

da Relaxing Weekend….

Well I don’t do much activity during this weekend:

 

visiting a furry friends for a while

  

 

 

but most of all I just stay at home, order a delivery service to get the food,

 

making and eating a pinky puding

    

 

   

and continue reading Musashi on my favorit corner for two days with my pillows

  

 

A cup of coffee was allowed during the reading.

 

 

Still a wonderfull weekend right?! ^ ^

Kae cerita buncil jaman jadul nih…bikin cerita pake gambar hahaha

the Promised pictures

Hum…sesuai yang sudah dijanjikan ya…the pictures from my temporary anggrek’s garden.

o0(+_+)0o

 

 

 

 

  

 

 

 

 

 

 

Anggrek-anggrek yang bertebaran di kosan ^ ^

 

 

Hmmm…masih ga tau namanya sampe sekarang, pokoknya disirem ajalah…. 

 

 

Baby orchid

 

Hopefully they could help to reduce the ‘I hate monday syndrome’ sympthoms yaaaa… ^ ^

Finally…..connected

Hari ini acara membanting tulang sedikit longgar mengingat hampir semua pe-er yang ada sudah dikerjakan dan aura wiken sudah menyebar kemana-mana. Tadinya mau pergi ke tempat bazaar seperti minggu lalu, masih untuk memeriksa dokumen yang saya proses di sana plus wisata kuliner, cuci mata dan cuci dompet hingga ngobrol dengan teman sepenanggungan, bla bla bla…… Untung juga agen si burung biru menempatkan saya dalam waiting list yang ga kunjung selesai hingga akhirnya saya tidak jadi berangkat karena sudah terlalu sore. Kemudian saya mencoba utak atik si mis kokom….penasaran untuk menginstal program hape connector yang sudah saya bawa dan saya lupa terus untuk install berhubung ini merupakan kegiatan terlarang (ssssttttt…..).

 

Akhirnyaaaaa bisa juga…dengan bantuan beberapa orang undercover agent hehehehe….Dan di bawah ada beberapa foto yang masih saya simpan di dalam hape butut saya, ada yang buat kenang-kenangan, ada yang buat mengingatkan, ada juga yang punya nilai sentimental sendiri buat saya…..

  

 

 

Sunset @ Tanah Lot 2006

 

My cute babies @ the cage

 

Bis yang bikin kapoook ituu…

(ban’e kok iso ngeglundung neng jalan tol toh yo? *manget-manget*)

Thanks God I’m alive o0(^_^)0o

 

 

 

HK Jumbo Float Resto

a wonderful nite view

 

 

Spokat anti banjir aye

 

Bantal cinte baru aye *norak mode on*

 

My curly hair gonna be

(dah kegerahan mo dipotong niy…)

 

 

Khu khu khu…dasar bandellll………. 

 

Sekilas info tentang Pasteurella multocida & Komodo

Tahukah anda jika air liur komodo (Varanus komodoensis) mengandung lebih dari 50 jenis bakteria? sehingga seringkali gigitan komodo mengakibatkan kematian karena infeksi yang disebabkan oleh bakteri gram negatif dan gram positif pada korbannya. Salah satu bakteri yang terkenal paling mematikan dalam liur tersebut adalah strain bakteri Pasteurella multocida.

 

Pasteurella multocida….

Pasteurella multocida merupakan bakteri gram negatif, non motil dengan bentuk coccobacillus yang sensitif terhadap sediaan penicillin. Infeksi yang disebabkan oleh bakteri ini dimasukkan ke dalam penyakit zoonosis yaitu penyakit yang dapat menular ke manusia melalui hewan lewat luka cakar ataupun luka gigitan sebagai port the entry infeksi. Infeksi P. multocida pada manusia dan hewan lebih sering dikenal dengan istilah Pasteurellosis.

 

Beberapa jenis mamalia dan unggas diketahui memiliki bakteri ini dalam tubuhnya tanpa menunjukkan gejala klinis yang berarti. Pada komodo sendiri, walaupun dalam liurnya mengandung P.  multocida, bakteri ini diketahui tidak menginfeksi komodo yang bersangkutan. Keberadaan P. multocida dapat menyebabkan terjadinya inflamasi lokal pada luka. Pada beberapa kasus, inflamasi berlanjut menjadi septikemia sehingga dapat menyebabkan terjadinya osteomyelitis, endocarditis bahkan meningitis dan akhirnya menyebabkan kematian.

 

Macam infeksinya dapat ditemukan dalam bentuk kutaneus yaitu peradangan dan edema pada daerah luka yang terjadi dalam kurun waktu yang cepat yaitu 1 - 2 jam setelah tercakar atau tergigit, disertai dengan rasa sakit dan eksudat. Gejala klinis lain yang dapat terjadi adalah demam, vomit hingga diare. Sementara itu pada bentuk septicaemia gejala klinis yang terlihat adalah demam yang tinggi disertai kejang-kejang dan vomit, shock dan koagulopati yang dapat menyebabkan pasien mengalami perdarahan pada berbagai organ vital dan mengalami kematian. Komplikasi antara kedua macam infeksi dapat terjadi.

 

Terapi terhadap pasteurellosis dapat dilakukan dengan pemberian antibiotik beta-lactam yang dapat menghambat pembentukan dinding sel bakteri. Pemberian fluoroquinolone (bekerja dengan menghambat sintesa DNA bakteri) atau pun pemberian tetracycline (mekanisme kerjanya berikatan dengan ribosom 30S sehingga menghambat sintesa protein bakteri). 

 

Sekian ulasan dari saya, semoga berguna  o0(^_^)0o

 

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Informasi didapat dari berbagai macam sumber:

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pasteurella_multocida

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Pasteurellosis

http://www.komododragon.biz/VaranidaeFamilyOfLizards#Varanussalvator

http://animaldiversity.ummz.umich.edu/site/accounts/information/Varanus_komodoensis.html

http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Komodo_dragon

 

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Lihat Kebunku…

Setelah dirapikan…disusun…ditoto’…dipelototin sebentar…dan dihitung dengan seksama sepulang ngantor kemaren, ternyata saya memboyong 28 pot tanaman anggrek dengan berbagai warna bunganya yang begitu menggiurkan….bisa niru tips awet mudanya tante Suzanna nih *berniat melalap bunga anggrek*  ^ ^ uhuy……

+ 1 bayi/tunas anggrek yang belum ketauan mau jadi kaya siapa nanti bunganya

+ 1 tanaman padang pasir dengan bunga seperti helai daun yang berwarna merah dan berbintik putih-merah muda di tengahnya tetapi tidak saya ketahui namanya.

 

Memang sih…………. seneng adem ayem tentram damai rimbun sampe ngungngungan (dikrubutin nyamuk) ngeliatnya….selanjutnya saya malah jadi puyeng mikirin bawanya…bawanya….bawanya boo…

Bawanya gimana nih? belum lagi rak besinya….

 

Mamsi ai nit yuh…

Omiyage from Thai

Kemarin siang, kolega di kantor - si mama panda pulang juga dari lawatannya ke Bangkok. Dengan senyum lebar di depan pintu ruangan kerja saya sambil menjinjing tas vinil, tangannya mencomot satu omiyage dan….voila munculah si bungkus hijau  Nescafe red cup espresso roast. Sambil cengar-cengir antara girang, tergoda dan mupeng (kan udah kopi-kaw dari minggu kemaren) saya cepat-cepat mencomot si hijau. Ternyata si mama panda malah jadi curiga dan hampir terjadi penarikan omiyage kembali. Setelah melihat tanggal expiration datenya dan berembug, janjian dan ‘jempolan’ bahwa saya tidak akan segera meminumnya (saat musim orang pada sakit begini) baru tuh si ijo bisa disimpan dengan nyaman di samping kalender saya.

 

Menatap gambar cangkir merah dengan isi kopinya yang sedikit berbuih dan mengepul sudah cukup menghibur kok untuk saat ini

**boong**

 

  

 

Kopppiiiii….  

o0(T_T)0o